The last first date…

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So have you ever been on a 1st date only wishing it was your ABSOLUTE last 1st date?

Maybe some of you have and maybe you have never been on “a” date.  Or maybe you just like dating and so therefore you go on many 1st dates, knowing that you will never or ever want to go on a 2nd date.

But I think for most of us, we would prefer to go on our last 1st dates, meaning that we hope we find the right person for us for the long haul and that with each progressive date, the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, streamlining eventually into just hanging out and sharing each other’s company and eventually moving in and sharing common space with “date nights”.

I know that this week I have had several first dates and some of them were okay, some of them were great, but last night on Shabbat I had a FANTASTIC first date!
It started off a little rough only due to my own need to “de-zone” from a very hectic busy week, moving to NYC, getting used to the energy again, learning to navigate the expectations of my new job here at Jewster.com, dealing with some heavy family drama but in the end on Friday I laid it all to rest.  I prepared myself for Shabbat by going to a local salon recommended by a random girl on the street only to be greeted with “Ma Nishma?”.  I replied, “Ani b’seder, v’ata?”  The man who asked me turned out to be a good-looking Italian stylist from Milano but he had been asking salon guests all day long “Ma Nishma?” which means “How are you?” in Hebrew (b’Ivrit).  He was surprised that I spoke Hebrew and so well.  However, Ronen, the Israeli stylist that eventually gave me my blow out was happy.  We negotiated a deal like we were in the shuk b’Yerushalyim and I got a pretty good deal for a Friday evening at 6:30pm for a wash and a blow out.

I proceeded back to the hair washing station and Amy, Ronen’s assistant started to work the magic of her hands on my stressed out head, hair and neck.  I gave her some feedback that I wanted her to rub my hair in certain spots, easing the tension of the week and having it slide down the drain of the tub.  Not only did she calm my overworked, exhausted, tired mind, she put me to sleep.  Yes, sleep!  I feel deeply into sleep for about a few minutes and when she was done she gently roused me awake.

I never felt so relaxed as I eased into Ronen’s chair and he smiled and spoke to me in Hebrew and we chatted about my week and his.  Amy offered me a cappucino which I took gladly and Ronen started to work his magic on my hair, flipping his brush just so and laughing/smiling the entire time as we had a great conversation about his life and mine in Hebrew.  The whole thing took a total of 25 minutes or so but for me it felt like a major treat.  I rarely ever go to a salon for a blow out and I felt like a new woman.  : )

I asked if anyone applied make-up (since I left most of mine in Brooklyn and I was on the UWS-Upper West Side).  No one had any but they did share a shop around the corner.  After finishing, Ronen kissed me twice-Israeli style and we were new best friends.  I told him that I would bring him my girlfriends for his clients and he said he would work a deal on recoloring my tresses.  Typical Israeli style, one more double kiss, a Shabbat Shalom and we were both out the door.  I walked into a shop near by where a woman named Lisa gave me a quick 10 min make-over and I felt like a brand new woman again.

Then I proceeded to call my impending date and share with him I would be there in a few minutes.  He said no worries and shared his address with me and told me to get a cab and he would pay.  (Note: Ladies when a man shares his address with you and says he’ll pay for the cab upon your arrival this is called CHIVALRY-gentlemanly behavior).

I felt like such a new woman and I had on a top I didn’t care for that I stopped by Century 21 at Columbus Circle and quickly moved through the store selecting a cute sweater and sweater jacket to complete my “new woman” look.  The cashiers were slow as hell and my date kept ringing me and I didn’t want to answer until I was done with my transaction.  I was trying not to be rude but the ladies were working like they had molasses in their boots, S-L-O-W…..

I smiled and said “I’m so sorry but I’m in a slight rush to get to a date, could you please go faster?” and they smiled and said “Sure Miss but we need to do this and this…”.  I was not sure exactly what they were speaking of after all they simply needed to swipe the tag, ring me up, have me pay and then out the door I go.  However this Century 21 has strict security measures due to its location near Times Square and the size of it and they had a protocol to follow in terms of getting the tags off the clothing and allowing me to wear the sweaters out the door.
I breathed, smiled, breathed some more and realized there was nothing I could do but wait…

…wait for them to be finished but also wait for Shabbat that was here and so I prayed right there in the middle of Century 21.  I said my Shabbat prayers, my t’fillim, sliently outloud to myself.  The cashier noticed my lips moving and asked me what I was doing while we both waited for the security man to come upstairs to witness the removal of the tags.  I just looked at her and kept praying and smiling.  She smiled back and when I was finished I said, “I’m praying for Shabbat.”.  She asked me what that was and I simply explained and she said “It’s funny you are praying in the store”.  I replied, “Hashem/G-d, is everywhere so if I need to pray for Shabbat in the store while waiting for my purchases, why not? Hashem will hear me.”  She laughed and I laughed and she placed my purchases in the bag.  I thanked her and ran out into the street and ensconed myself into a cab.  I proceeded to call my date and apologize for the delay and he said “No problem, just get here soon, I’m hungry”.  (Note: Little did I know but he was not only really hungry but also hungry to see me.)

I arrived quickly down 9th Avenue to his place and I rang him to say I had arrived.  He was happy to hear and quickly came downstairs, paid for the cab, helped me out of the cab and we went to place my computer bag and purchases in his home.  He showed me his view of the city from his terrace, we chatted and then left to go have dinner at a Brazilian restaurant.  From the very beginning when our eyes locked through the whole meal and post drinks/dancing after the meal, we never missed a beat.  He had me laughing, I had him laughing, we shared some stories of our lives and we also just sat, quietly and gazed into each other’s eyes.

All in all it was beyond wonderful, it flowed with ease and we found out that we had much in common.  A lot in common and I knew while looking at him that this may possibly be….

….my last first date.

Enjoy your Shabbat/Shabbos, I know I will enjoy mine, relaxed, eased, happy.

B’shalom/In friendship/peace,

Sara

Can we just be friends?

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So we all know the common phrase issued at many break ups:

” I really like you and can we just be friends”  or “I love you so much as a….friend”

In the end can we just be friends?  If you had sex once, twice, were friends with benefits, had a live-in several year long relationship, were married/committed/raised kids together we still want to know…

…can you just be friends?

How many times has this worked?  How many times has it not?  In the end, there was a reason you stopped having sex, you stopped kissing passionately, you stopped giving cute love notes, Valentine’s cards, holiday cards, birthday gifts, leaving random sweet nothings on each other’s voicemails at work, on your cells, sending cutsey-wootsey texts…it simply was better off that you were just…

FRIENDS

But in the end of the day, time passes, it heals, you show up months later and BOOM! there is that past lover who screwed you on top of the washing machine, the man/woman you made dinner with everynight for weeks/months/years, your partner who held your hair as you puked up the remants of the holiday bash, the man/woman who wiped your baby’s bottom and laughed with you when they peed in your face.  Here they are- this person, this human, this adorable amazing being who at one time you were quite intimate with and they knew every dimple, stretch mark, quirk and smile that you showed on your beautiful body/face.

Now, you are friends and you sometimes wonder/wish/even outright talk about the fact that you could just once, possibly in a drunken/high state or not…be initimate/have sex/enjoy each other’s company just once more…

…after all what could come of it but mere pleasure and a sense of euphoria, a sense of knowing and comfort, a sense of belonging and a sense that all is okay in this mixed up crazy world and that there is simply one person who “gets you and all of you no matter what” and that this one person is your…

…friend.

But in the end…maybe a friendship is just what you need and that it’s simply enough.

A turkey for me, a turkey for you, eating our turkey in a big brown shoe….

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Hey Jewsters-

Ahhh so sit back, relax and get ready to light the lights, say our blessings, toast a L’chaim and eat some more, s’more?  Yes it’s YET another day of eating but this time to eat and rest and eat and rest!  Wait??

Didn’t we JUST do this yesterday on Thanksgiving…you know that holiday when we are thankful to our family and friends, maybe the ones we just were annoyed with the day before or an hour or two on that morning when they didn’t stuff the bird just so?  Or they changed the channel from our beloved Macy’s Day Thanksgiving Parade AND pre-parade show only to watch some lame football game or rather ESPN’s pre-coverage spread of said football game?

But alas we have Thanksgiving, that ALL AMERICAN holiday/chag that we give our thanks, bow our head and unite in being truly AMERICAN.  Even Macy’s knew best to unify our brothers and sisters in putting our beloved former Cantor, NYC born and bred Jew boy himself, Neil Diamond, singing “America” on a float with a bunch of lil’ pilgrim kiddos.  : )  How could you deny the smile on your face while you sang along?

So we Jews love our food, we love to gather it, cook it just so, eat it just right and relish in the post-meal discussions on all things football, thanks, whose turkey and kosher gravy are better and whose sweet potato dish really is OUTSTANDING.  In the end we get a double blessing:  we already had our Jewish Thanksgiving about a month or so ago.

Yes, Sukkot, that wonderful pilgrimage holiday/chag when we used to lay our harvest at the steps of the Holy Temple, now we lay it out our pre-fab Sukkot tables underneath our stars in Bangor/Augusta/Portland, ME, Boston/Cape Cod, Brooklyn, Manhattan, Jersey City, Baltimore, Washington DC, Atlanta, Charlotte NC, Tallahassee, FL, Miami/BocaRaton/Aventura/Ft. Lauderdale, Columbus, Chicago, St. Louis, New Orleans, Minneapolis, Denver, Boulder, Salt Lake City, Santa Fe, Albuquerque, Los Angeles, San Fransisco, Portland, Seattle, Anchorage, even yes Honolulu…we are EVERYWHERE and tonight as we light our lights let us remember we are also everywhere throughout the world AND ONLINE RIGHT IN THE PALMS OF OUR HANDS!

So continue to fress, kvell, debate, smile, laugh, relax, sleep, walk, share and yes even love….after all love is what makes us go around and love keeps us together for yet another week in the wide wonderful world of the Web, the Real world and beyond in our amazing universe.

Enjoy these videos as we bring in our peaceful and relaxing Shabbat and feel free to leave your comments, start a conversation, “Like” Us on Facebook and follow us on Twitter @Jewster or @Sassyjewster and get ready for another month full of Hanukkah happenin’s and holy moly madness Jewster style!
Promise YOU! You won’t want to miss out!
Be there or be a Star of David!

Shabbat Shalom/Good Shabbos y’all from the coast of Maine soon to be in the Bklyn….

Sara aka The Rockin’ Rabbi!

 

 

Shabbat Shalom from the “303″/Denver Home of JFNAGA Denver 2011

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Hey all…

Shabbat Shalom on this fine 11/18/11 evening!  My name is Sara and I am writing from the “303″ or “80203″ aka Denver aka Mile High!  This is where I was born and raised as a fine young Jew up until my parents yanked me and my siblings away to be closer to our g-parents back East in Queens, NY and Rutherford Island, ME.

It’s been an interesting journey thus far and in my lifetime I have been involved in many o’ Jewish organizations/agencies/non-profits/start-ups/camps/bands/Taglit trips/Israel tiyulim/Shabbos dinners/amazing Shabbat song and Israeli folk dancing all night fetes and of course many Jdates.  As an active single good-looking talented Jewish gal, I can honestly say that I am a Jdat-er and just recently signed on for a one month plus 5 days package over a few months ago.  I have to say that they are STILL charging me and honestly have met some great and interesting men this time around but have had only ONE date.  To be fair, I currently reside according to my license and state registration/voter registration in the grand beautiful vacation state of Maine.

Yes, I said Maine.  This is your turn to say, are there Jews in Maine?  Why yes, I would reply many in fact and honestly we are truly hidden in the woods all the way from Upper regions of Jackman and Ft. Kent down to Kittery/Kennubunkport and all the way in between.  My brother got Bar Mitzvahed in Rockland, Maine and my wonderful Rabbi Susan Carvutto leads an amazing Reform congregation at Temple Beth El in our capital of Augusta.  The Jews of Maine are proud, diverse, creative and most importantly engaged in our community all around.  The one caveat is that most of them don’t reside in my tiny lobster village of New Harbor on the coast, 1 hour due south of Camden and 1 hour due north of Portland.

You may ask yourself, then what am I doing there if there’s not a whole bunch of Jewish men let alone Jewish women in our very tiny village community or anywhere nearby?

Simple family (mishpacha) and natural beauty.  I moved back there temporarily after another beautiful but failed relationship, this one almost lead to a 2nd marriage for each other but alas it was not meant to be.  The good news is that it ended very amicably and we still are great friends to this day.  In fact dear NYC Jewish women, he’s moving into Bklyn by mid December, right in time for Hanukkah- he LOVES homemade latkes and sour cream and plays a mean Dreidel.  He is a kibbutz-born and raised, Habonim Dror (aka Habo Head), cute, funny, smart, brillant, blue-eyed British/Israeli/American Jewish man who works hard for his money and ALWAYS treats you right.  So nu?  Why am I not marrying him?

The answer is simple – the timing was not right. After 2 years we both realized that we would not do well married and we were very HONEST AND FORTHRIGHT with one another.  Did this cause tremendous heartache and pain?  Quite frankly, yes but what it did do was bring us closer together as friends.  I am happy about that and so is he and honestly we are better friends than lovers.

I feel that while the past 2 years were lovely in parts and challenging in others, I believe we learned a lot from each other, shared much, broke down our “walls” post our divorces and realized we had a lot to laugh about along the journey of our friendship and relationship.  I met his family, he met mine, we talked very openly about marriage and children and it was just not meant to be and that is OKAY.

I am now the new Communications Manager of Jewster.com.  This happened as part of the great 2011 Schoomzefest that we call  the JFNAGA (that’s Jewish Federation of North America General Assembly-we Jews love our acronyms).  Ironically after hanging out with Aryeh, founder of Jewster.com and other wonderful Jewish leaders/Rabbis/Cantors/future Hillel/Next Gen-ers and friends of mine @ the JFNAGA, Aryeh (Ari) saw something awesome, magical, and wonderful about my ability to express myself, connect with others, network and enjoy the whole process with a big smile on my lovely shayna punim (beautiful face).

He tracked me down post JFNAGA and we talked and now here I am, posting my first blog. I am about to go to relax, unwind and bring in the Shabbos by lighting candles and saying blessings with friends both Jewish and non-Jewish, straight and gay at a friend’s for dinner.  I’m excited for the future of Jewster.com and excited for my future with y’all.  I am looking forward to exploring this vast wide wonderful world of dating online and in between @ events (including Hanukkah events with our partners in NYC and other wonderful North American cities) and with you here on this blog, on Facebook, on Twitter and via snail mail if you want.

We can all share, encourage, learn, connect, reconnect, and hopefully gain a few morsels of dating knowledge, wisdom and also possibly an actual date or two or three and maybe just maybe our b’shereit (our soulmate).

Here’s to a great start on Erev Shabbat and what a time to start: 11/18/11-18 in Judaism equals to the letter “Chai” in the Hebrew Alpha-Bet.  ”Chai” equals LIFE.

So raise your cups, say Mazel Tov and….

….L’chaim!!!!  See ya on here and on FB and Twitter post Shabbos, enjoy and light your lights with joy, laughter, and lots and lots of LOVE….

Peace out/B’shalom (In Peace),

Sara Silverstein aka the Rockin’ Rabbi

Rome (And Love) Wasn’t Built in a Day

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As I sit here writing for Jewster, I feel strangely like Carrie Bradshaw, although I don’t own a pair of Manolo Blahniks (I do have a ridiculous collection of shoes, though) and I’m not writing on a cute MacBook.

To introduce myself, my name is Erika Ettin, and I left the world of corporate America in March to start my own business – A Little Nudge – where I help people with all aspects of online dating, from profile-writing all the way to planning dates. My goal is to help people find success in online dating, just as I did. But in the days of Sex and the City, online dating wasn’t yet discussed. I wonder what they would have thought of NYC’s most eligible bachelors all being lined up side-by-side on Match.com or Jewster. Something tells me they could have made a few more seasons.

Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither was the process of finding the love of your life. Many people go online or go to a speed dating event and expect to find their “one and only” simply by signing up or logging in. Unfortunately, it’s not that easy, and it will take some time. But don’t worry – all of the effort isn’t for naught.

I was on and off JDate for years, and it led to a few relationships here and there, but it took a lot of time to meet the right person. Throughout the process, you learn what you like and what you don’t like. For example, one short relationship years ago taught me that even if a guy says he’s romantic in his profile, it doesn’t necessarily mean he is. (Unless you call romantic being in bed at 10:00 every night without even making an exception for a casual game of Scrabble – my favorite.) I was just so eager to be in a relationship that I overlooked it for a while. And online dating also gave me my fair share of awkward, yet laughable experiences. There was the time I went on a date with a guy, and as we sit down, he says to me, “So, I think we went on a date six years ago.” Oy – I didn’t like him the first time, and I certainly didn’t like him the second!

For the people I give “A Little Nudge” to, I don’t let them quit after one month online. It’s not giving yourself a fair chance. People are still warming up to the whole concept of online dating and getting over the stigmas, so maybe they just need time to get acclimated to the scene and respond to you.

As Carrie once said, “People go to casinos for the same reason they go on blind dates – hoping to hit the jackpot. But mostly, you just wind up broke or alone in a bar.” Love is out there, but it just takes some good ol’ time to find it. Might as well have fun with the process!

Erika Ettin is the Founder of A Little Nudge, helping people find success in online dating and getting them excited about its possibilities. “Like” A Little Nudge on Facebook, or follow on Twitter.

Presenting Some Partnerships!

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We’re excited to announce our first philanthropic partners: Hazon and PresenTense, and we wanted to give you a little bit of insight about each of the organizations so that when you sign up for Jewster.com, you can make sure you’re giving to an organization that best represents you!

Hazon creates “healthy and sustainable communities in the Jewish world and beyond,” and believes that “engaging Jews in environmental education, action, and advocacy changes them, their families, their institutions, and the community as a whole.” We couldn’t agree more! To read more about Hazon, check out their vast website!

Through fellowships, projects, partners, and their magazine, PresenTense “engages and inspires the most creative minds of our generation, investing in their ideas and energy to revitalize the Jewish community” by enabling young Jews to have “global conversations about new ideas and envision a better future.” The goal of PresenTense is to educate and equip young Jewish leaders for success!

To see some of the PresenTense fellows and their awesome projects that you can help fund — like Punk Jews, Bible Raps, and Haggadot.com — head over to the PresenTense website.

Do you have a favorite organization to which you give regularly? Let us know, and hopefully we can make a partnership connection! Or, if you’re an organization looking to partner with us, just fill out this form!

And when you’re ready to give, just sign up for a subscription and choose where you want part of your membership funds to go!

A Very, Very Bad Date: Part II

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If you’re looking for Part I, the Holocaust Museum date, check here.

Once upon a time, a JDater clicked on my profile. I clicked on his and spotted a picture of this fella kissing a dolphin. Immediately, I was turned off. It isn’t that I don’t like dolphins, but it seemed a little provincial for my test. But me, being me, decided to respond to his “hello” message and see where the conversation went. We started talking and had some things in common (a love of winter) and many things not in common (he hates reading), but we decided to give it a shot.

After a week talking, he suggested we meet, in person. I’m not the planning type, so I asked him what he thought would be a good plan. His suggestion? Letterboxing, followed by dinner and a movie. For those of you who don’t know what Letterboxing is, it’s great in theory, but probably not for a first date.

Similar to geocaching, its origins go back years before modern geocaching – where one uses a series of clues (instead of coordinates) to find a container. A carved stamp is in each letterbox for use in stamping your personal logbook. You then take your carved stamp and stamp the letterbox’s log book.

Do you know where I’m going with this?

I advised some of my Twitter and other e-friends about the date, and immediately got some horrified reactions. “You’re going into the woods with a complete stranger!?” My concern, on the other hand, was that it was late August and about 1 million degrees out plus 100 percent humidity. Who wants to schvitz like a dog in the middle-of-nowhere on a first date — with a complete stranger that you met online?

Evidently, I do!

The date picked me up and we headed out to our destination, at which time I checked my cellular service and realized I had none. Even more spooky! As we schlepped through the woods, my date talked about his family and his interests and his work, not asking a single question about me or my interests. I was turned off completely, but we were in the middle of nowhere and this date had barely started. And then? We got lost. A one-hour hike in the smoldering woods resulted in an almost three-hour adventure.

To make matters worse, Friends had advised me to Tweet or text or something when we left the woods, just to say “Hey, I’m alive! He didn’t ax-murder me!” So hours later when I was finally able to notify them, they all assumed I was dead.

The date continued with a large pasta dinner, which can I add is a horrible thing to do after a sweaty jaunt in the wilderness. The evening was capped off by a viewing of Sweeney Todd, which I also have to add is a horrible movie choice after a creepy hike and a gigantic, red-sauce infused dinner.

The funny thing? He convinced me to go on a second date. And then a third. And then I married him. And then we got divorced. Maybe I should have taken that first date as the ultimate hint?

Tip No. 2: Don’t make your date sweat on the first date, even if she’s one of those crazy outdoor adventure types. Keep it simple, keep it relaxing, like coffee or a drink, maybe even a trip to the local bookstore. You’ll have plenty of other options for crazy experiences in the great outdoors, but you have to figure out where the other person is before you schedule that white water rafting date.

Oh, and as much as you love letting your date do the planning, maybe you should insert some input. It’s always better to make your expectations known from square one!

A Very, Very Bad Date: Part I

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The truth is, online dating can be dangerous. It’s parodied on TV shows (I’m thinking of How I Met Your Mother, here) and there are plenty of bloggers out there who relish in the bad-date experience for blog fodder. We’ve all been on really bad dates that started with conversations full of potential on a dating site, so for the sake of full disclosure, I’m going to share a few of mine with you in a little series I’m going to call “A Very, Very Bad Date.” (Don’t worry, there will also be a series called “A Very, Very Awesome Date” or something like that. You have to take the good with the bad!)

Shockingly bad date No. 1? I was living in Washington D.C. back in 2006-07, and that was when I first joined jDate and began a long line of very weird, very inappropriate dates (you live, you learn — yes there are prowlers on online dating sites). But the date that sticks out to me wasn’t inappropriate, no, it was just plain weird. I had chatted with the red-headed fellow online for a while, and when it came time to actually meet, he suggested that since he had never been, and that I hadn’t been in few years, that we go to the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum.

Yes, the Holocaust Museum was the very unromantic setting for our first date. To make matters more awkward, we were accosted right at the beginning of the tour by an elderly man when we were standing in front of the IBM number machine. He went on a tirade about how evil IBM was and is and always will be, so we better keep that in mind. He was like the awkward, intrusive waiter, to our imaginary candlelight dinner or picnic. Sort of. After the date was over — and when I say date, I mean two people walking silently through one of the most emotionally moving and emotionally exhaustive museums in the world — we sort of nodded kindly and parted ways. Did we ever see each other again? No. But the Holocaust Museum will always be a reminder of a really, really bad choice for a first date. Emotionally taxing, but not in a good way. I wonder what he’s up to these days …

Tip No. 1: If you’re going to go to a museum on a first date, opt for a Children’s Museum where you can have fun and be interactive, or at least an art or history museum where you can discuss your take on things without feeling like you’re intruding on a difficult and emotional history.

Stay tuned for the next installment, and be sure to comment with your bad date experiences and how you would have made them better. We all need a little dating advice, especially when it comes to meeting that special person online!

Are You Ready for Jewster?

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You don’t know me, but I’m Chaviva, and I’ve been around the Jewish dating block a plenty of times as a member of JDate.com and Frumster.com, so when I was tapped to take on Social Media for another Jewish dating site, I was — like most who have experienced the online Jewish dating experience — incredibly skeptical. Another Jewish dating site? Can the Jewish dating model really be made better?

So I shut my mouth and listened, and what I heard was a plan for an innovative way to date Jewishly online that I was excited about on a personal and professional level. The short version? Jewster wants to make you happy and help you find your soulmate.

The longer version? Jewster is, at its core, your typical Jewish dating site, but it’s so much more than that in two very unique ways.

  • We know that users sign up for websites because they value the service being offered, so we know that although Jewster is an awesome resource, not everyone can afford $24.99/month, let alone more. Jewster is suggesting the price of life — חי (chai), $18/month — for our dating site, but ultimately you, the user, can choose to pay what you think the site is worth. (Yes, we’re taking a nod from the book of Radiohead!) Think you might meet someone but aren’t so sure? Maybe you can only put up $10/month. Are you a college student with a .edu email address? Well, you get to explore Jewster for free!
  • Even better — for you and the Jewish community — a portion of every subscription fee will be donated to a Jewish organization or initiative that you, the user, chooses! You’ll be supporting a Jewish project by using a dating site, which is something you would probably be doing anyway. It’s a real win-win.

And if that wasn’t enough for you, we’ll be going all FourSquare on your accounts and providing a badge system. Post a certain number of events, donate to an organization a certain number of times, or take on other tasks, and you’ll earn a badge!

From the perspective of a single Jewish girl who likes to support Jewish causes, Jewster has just about everything: the chance to meet new people, to give to Jewish causes, and to finally be in control of the online dating experience.

So here I am, excited and onboard with Jewster, and I’m eager to keep everyone up-to-date on what’s happening at Jewster. We’re here to serve you and make this the best user experience possible, so let us know what you love and what you hate about the online Jewish dating experience, and we’ll do our best to make Jewster everything you wanted so you can meet that person who is truly everything you could ever have hoped for.

Oh! And for those of you rolling your eyes about our name, the truth is that Jewster.com has been around since the days of the -ster craze, and the brand has taken many different forms throughout the years. But we’re sticking with Jewster because we’re proud of our brand, and we know you will be, too!